Saturday, 6 August 2011

154. Mutilation

Phoned the plastics breast nurse Monday as instructed.  In the interim, she’d spoken to ‘my’ nurse who’d told her to get me in for Wednesday. 

Turned up, having been warned that I may face a long wait, but was seen quickly. 

She peeled the huge strapping tapes off which stung.  I was half afraid to look but eventually did.  Not bad considering it was only day 6.  The nurse finished pulling the strapping off underneath.  By my armpit was a stingy patch.  She looked at it and proclaimed it a blood blister.  When I tried to put my arm down, it was sticky and felt prickly.  Overall though, the nurse was pleased with the way I was healing.  

Before she redressed it, she asked me if I wanted a look at it.  I was shocked when I did.  My boob was incredibly reduced.  Much more so than I’d expected.  My cancer boob is an F cup.  My new boob looked to me to be a D cup.   

Not only was my boob much smaller than it should have been but the shape was weird too.  It continued into my armpit, giving a weird lump shape at my side.  At the bottom, near the crease, what should have been a rounded curve was oval, almost rectangular.  And the nipple!  My areola was almost completely gone.  Yeah, the nipple was there but around it, there was probably only a centimetre of areola left.  Now, I know my areola was large, larger than the one on my cancer boob, but still.  Now it was ridiculously small.   

I had to stop examining myself in the mirror to allow the nurse to put the new dressings on.  She put on a very light dressing, which was a real relief after the heavy strapping that had been on there.   

I walked out of the plastics unit in a daze.  Upset, shocked, let down by the way my surgery had gone; by what that bloody stupid plastic ‘surgeon’ had done to me.  One thing was obvious.  I needed a new bra.  I wasn’t really in any state to go shopping, but the huge bra I’d been given on the ward just didn’t fit.  M&S bra department was alien, given that I had to eschew the usual underwired bras.  I found myself a selection of soft, D cup bras and tried them on.  Too big.  Not even a D cup then.  Down to C. 

I bought 6 and took them home. 

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