156. Again

Back to my daughter again.  She STILL hasn’t been to have her smear checked.  What the hell do I do?  If I push it with her, she’ll get totally pissed of with me.  Her excuses though, are ridiculous.  Not enough time to go get checked.  Tell cancer that!  Her ignorance astounds me.  

I’m gonna have to stop contact with her until she’s dealt with it.  If she wants my support, I’m there.  If she wants to tell me that she’s having a cancer scare and then expect me to ignore the risk, I can’t do it.  I accept that I can’t force HER to deal with it; she’s an adult now but she can’t make me accept it. 

Get checked!


In the background to this is a letter, informing me that the date for my hysterectomy has been booked.  Fab!  Get it done.  Reduce MY risk.  Just the one cervix to worry about then.